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Janet's New Doo |
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Inside the Church |
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Outside the Church |
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Notice at the Library |
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Old Church Enveloped by Vines |
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Parochial School |
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The Manse |
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Queenie's Stone Fence |
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Lane to Durrow High Cross |
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Durrow High Cross through the Keyhole |
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Janet & Helen - They look like they could be related don't you think? |
Back to the pub for breakfast, the boys were thrilled to see pancakes on the menu. They turned out to be more like a crepe, but were gobbled up just the same. There were a group that came in from a morning of fishing who sat near us and I enjoyed listening to them chatting. The accent is a lot lighter than the Scottish one, but I could only understand half of what they were saying. It reminded me much more of listening to a group of Newfoundlanders talking.
Today's mission was to get into the Church of Ireland, find the manse that Janet's mother had lived in, the school she attended, the stone fence she walked on on her way to school and the cemetary where relatives lay to rest. The pub is a good place to start. The locals were more than happy to help, even using their own cell phones to contact others who could help. Once the right locals were contacted we learned that the church would be opened at 10:30am, the current minister lived in the manse but was likely on holiday and got directions to the manse, the cemetary was a block away in the opposite direction as the church, the school was in the same direction as the manse and the local library was a good place to look for any documents.
Janet had spotted a number of hair salons in the square and had booked in to get a haircut and so that was her first stop while the rest of us loaded up the van. She got a great cut and felt like she had made 4 friends in the process. The lady that cut her hair talked about the recession and how her husband had been out of work for some time. We knew there was a world-wide recession, but we ourselves have not really felt the effects. Everywhere we went in the UK we heard about the recession and about how badly it was affecting them. Ireland had been booming with lots of construction which had come to a screeching halt and those who had money were not spending and so theree were many people unemployed. (According to some information the riots in London that we narrowly missed were also in part due to the recession). Others said that Canada, Australia and China were the only economies that were not a mess. Something to think about.
The church opened right on time and we spent some time exploring everything we could. When we headed to the library a notice on the door was for an upcoming exhibit about the history of the Smyth family of Westmeath by Michael O'Conlain - yet another wow moment. We headed to the cemetary before trying to track down Michael. There we found the headstones of young James William Smyth and Richard, Martha and Bishop Richard Tyner. Right beside them was what at first appeared to be a well sculpted tree, but upon further examination Ken realized it wasn't a tree, but vines which had taken over a structure. This turned out to be the original church - amazing how nature can take something over so completely.
Another trip to the pub, another local making a call on their cell phone and we were headed to Michael's (pronounced mee-hail in the Irish language, who he told us is 83 and 6'3") home where he awaited us under his umbrella at the end of his driveway. All 7 of us were welcomed into Michael & Grainne's (pronounced Gronya) home and were treated to stories of the area and their family while Janet got some info about her Grandfather. The Smyth family the exhibit was about was a different one, but he still had some good info. The boys were amazed at these strangers and how welcoming and interesting they were. In the short time we were there Grainne had Keeghan and Cael trying to figure out why her iPad wouldn't charge. They had a beautiful home filled with drawings and paintings by Grainne and a large family - in true form of the good Irish Catholic tradition. A very pleasant visit which we will always remember.
Leaving here we headed toward the school and manse that Janet's mother Victoria "Queenie" had lived and gone to school in until 1904. Both were still there in use and in remarkably good shape. At the school we just stopped long enough for some pics and we identified the stone fence Queenie spoke about. We found the house easily and as we thought no one was home. So we just poked around and took some pics and headed back to the stone fence so Janet could have a little stroll in her mother's footsteps :) Knowing the story of Queenie's family leaving Ireland in 1904 by ship, taking the train to Edmonton and then floating on a raft to Hewitt's landing north of Lloydminster with all their worldly possessions (including a piano) and all their children (the youngest 6 months old) and spending the first winter on the prairie's in a tent was amazing. Having actually stood on the steps of the beautiful home they left, complete with electricity and indoor plumbing when they lived there, made it that much more amazing. Conditions in Ireland must have been poor and there is no way they knew what they were going to to make that move.
A quick peek at Tullynally Castle and we hit the road bound for Adare. On the way to Adare was the Durrow Abbey where the Reverend Smyth had been prior to Castlepollard. Once again I think some strange force was guiding us. As the place is not well marked we had trouble finding it. We asked directions a few times (one was from a lady who bought an old church and is turning it into her home) and made a few U-turns but finally we arrived at the gates (which I had pointed out the first time we passed them about 30 minutes before, but there was no sign). We walked up the long drive under a canopy of lush green trees and finally arrived only to find that most of it was under reconstruction and we couldn't get in. We strolled around to see what we could and were just about to leave when a lady approached who turned out to be Helen Bracken - a local who was hosting a Molloy (Janet's Grandmother's maiden name) family reunion that weekend and an archeologist to boot. She pointed out the relevant head stones, her and Janet made some family connections and she shared what she knew about the site - which as an archeologist was quite a lot. Sadly the
Durrow High Cross was locked in the church and a month before the old doors, that had a moving panel you could see into, were replaced. We weren't disappointed long when Aidan discovered that when you moved the cover to the key hole, you could see right in to the cross! (Many of the keys here are still skeleton keys!). We were even able to take photos! Just think, if we had found the site straight away - we would have missed Helen!
We reached our B&B, Adare Country House around 9pm to a worried host. We had 2 large rooms booked and she had already turned away 7 others. She was thankful when we arrived. It was a gorgeous B&B right at the end of main street in Adare. The boys and Ken & Janet decided to call it a day (it had been a long one), but I was determined to see some Irish music and tonight was our last chance. So off we went in search of a pub with local music. The first pub was packed with young people and no music. We were going to walk right by when I made eye contact with a couple young guys outside smoking and in true Irish form they engaged us in conversation. They offered to take us home or to Gallway for some music - we all had a good laugh and they sent us down the street to Aunty Lena's pub. This pub was also packed, but with a crowd more our age and with Irish music. Dave ordered a Guiness for himself, a Bailey's for me and we sat down to enjoy the music and chat with the fellow next to us. He reminded me of Mr. Beek, the boys school bus driver. He lived in a smaller village nearby where he farmed part time and also he said was lucky to have other employment as well. Again noting that times were tough. Part way through "pink guy" (dressed in pink shirt and tie) walked in. A young fellow who was bored at a wedding up the street and came to the pub for a drink (which obviously wasn't the first of the night). He worked as an Engineer in Limerick and told us not to go there, but Dublin was good and told us numerous times to see the Cliffs of Moher. We had a few laughs at his expense - he wanted me to dance (nobody else was dancing) and I told him only if he put his beer down because I didn't want to wear it. This made the first fellow laugh hysterically. Thankfully the musician's took a break then and I was off the hook and pink guy left soon after. The musician's played tunes that were made familiar to us by the east coast band the Rankin's. There were 4 of them seated around a pub table, drinking and playing a flute, guitar, fiddle, whistle and singing. We were really glad we had gone out.